When I reflect on my journey to business school, I feel a mix of pride and amazement. As a Vietnamese first-generation student, navigating the world of higher education — especially on the other side of the world — was anything but straightforward. It’s been a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and growth, and I’m grateful for every step that’s brought me to Fuqua.

The Beginning of the Journey

Coming from a first-generation background, the idea of pursuing a graduate degree in one of the best universities in the world felt like a dream. My parents were both born during the Vietnam War, and my family worked hard to ensure I had opportunities they didn’t. But navigating the education system wasn’t something they could guide me through.

Working as a server during college taught me invaluable lessons about client service and communication. Those long shifts were more than just a way to make ends meet — they were my first glimpse into what it meant to put others first, a skill that’s proven invaluable in business school and beyond.

The path wasn’t easy. I often questioned whether I was good enough to step into spaces where success seemed reserved for others with different backgrounds. When I decided to apply to business school, I didn’t have a mentor to guide me. It felt like jumping into the deep end with little preparation. But I took that leap because I knew education would open doors I couldn’t reach otherwise.

Finding My Place at Fuqua

When I received my acceptance to the Master of Management Studies (MMS) program, it felt like the culmination of years of hard work. While I was proud of this achievement, I couldn’t shake the nerves. Would I fit in at a place as prestigious as Fuqua? How would I connect with my peers, many of whom came from families where business school was an expected next step?

Those doubts faded when I stepped on campus. I quickly found a community that embraced my background and valued my experiences. Being part of the Low-Income First-Generation Experience (LIFE) Club was particularly meaningful. As a student-led organization supporting first-generation and low-income students, LIFE gave me a sense of belonging I hadn’t realized I was missing. It was a reminder that my story mattered and that I had something unique to contribute.

Lessons Learned Along the Way

Adjusting to the rigor of business school wasn’t without its challenges. From tackling complex finance and accounting courses to learning how to network effectively, every day felt like a lesson in growth. I’ve come to realize that these challenges are what make the experience so rewarding.

One of my most significant lessons has been learning to ask for help. As a first-generation student, I often felt like I needed to figure everything out on my own. At Fuqua, I discovered the power of community. Whether it was seeking advice from professors, collaborating with classmates, or leaning on the support of friends, I realized that success isn’t a solo journey. The Career Management Center (CMC) is also super helpful, and I am glad to stay connected with a career coach who also has a LIFE background.

Additionally, I learned to celebrate my identity. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, I’ve often been in spaces where I felt like I had to blend in. But Fuqua has been a place where I can embrace every part of who I am. This has given me the confidence to step into roles like being an Admissions Ambassador and serving on the graduate student government, where I get to support prospective students and show them that their stories matter, too.

Building Connections and Balancing Responsibilities

While studying at Fuqua, I’ve taken on roles that allow me to support myself financially and connect with other parts of the Duke community. As a marketing and communications assistant at Duke Learning Innovation and Lifetime Education (LILE), I get to contribute creatively while honing professional skills. On the weekends, I work as a visitor experience supervisor at Duke Gardens, where I engage with visitors and help manage operations.

These opportunities not only help me earn extra income but also give me the chance to network with departments across Duke. They’ve been a valuable way to expand my perspective, meet new people, and feel more connected to the broader university environment.

Giving Back and Looking Ahead

As I approach the end of my MMS journey, I’m more committed than ever to paying it forward. Whether it’s mentoring other first-generation students, contributing to admissions initiatives, or simply being a supportive classmate, I want to make sure others feel as empowered as I’ve felt at Fuqua.

Looking ahead, I’m excited about the possibilities. No matter my path, I know the lessons I’ve learned at Fuqua — both in and beyond the classroom — will guide me. My goal is to continue building a career that combines strategic thinking with a commitment to helping others.

To anyone considering business school, especially first-generation students like me: you belong here. The path might not always be clear, and the challenges might feel overwhelming, but trust yourself. Lean into your unique story, and don’t be afraid to ask for help along the way. You’re capable of more than you know, and the world needs your perspective.

If I’ve learned anything from my time at Fuqua, it’s that success isn’t about where you started — it’s about where you’re willing to go.