To enroll or not to enroll, that was the question…

Before arriving at Duke, I was overwhelmed with doubts. The tuition cost, fear of loneliness (I didn’t know anyone in the U.S.), the fast pace of the program, and high cost of living (relative to what I was used to) all weighed heavily on my mind. Enrolling at Fuqua felt like a risky leap to take, especially since my parents couldn’t cover the tuition fees. I was torn between continuing my current path or stepping into the unknown to accelerate my journey toward my dreams and goals.

Before I knew it, it was decision day — the last chance to buy a ticket to the U.S. or stay in my home country. After a heartfelt conversation with my parents, they convinced me that I could overcome any challenges ahead. They reminded me that time is the most valuable resource, and I shouldn’t miss the opportunity to turn my dreams into reality. With their support, I booked my ticket.

After a long journey, I finally arrived at Duke. As an international student who had never been to the U.S., I faced many challenges. To help others avoid the same pitfalls, here are my tips for surviving and thriving at Fuqua:

1. Choose the best place to live in advance

My decision to come to Fuqua was last-minute, so I didn’t have a place to live when I arrived. Fortunately, people from my home country helped me during my first few days, and I eventually found an apartment.

When looking for housing, think carefully about what you need around you. Here are some questions to consider:

• Do you want to have easy access to grocery stores, coffee shops, and restaurants?
• Do you want to live closer to campus?
• Will you need a car?
• Would you prefer a quieter neighborhood?

Ninth Street and downtown Durham are great areas with cozy cafés, grocery stores, a bustling vibe with entertainment options, and access to public transport. Housing options closer to campus are great for walking to class or taking Duke buses.

I encourage international students to reach out to someone from their home country in advance. It can be incredibly helpful, as they can provide guidance, share local insights, and offer support in navigating initial challenges. I wish I had planned these details in advance because it would’ve saved me a lot of time and stress.

2. Arrive early to settle in

When I arrived in Durham, I only had a few days to settle in. Looking back, I wish I had arrived a bit before school started, giving me time to handle essential tasks like opening a bank account, exploring Durham, visiting Duke Gardens, and managing household or basic settling-in tasks. Juggling these responsibilities while keeping up with school can be overwhelming, so give yourself time to settle in.

3. Build a network

Be open to meeting people and building relationships. At Fuqua, teamwork is at the core of everything — we work in teams 24/7.

I enjoy team assignments because, instead of just working together to finish the project, we also discuss different topics, have fun, share meals, and teach each other. This approach helps transform a group into a true team, where trust and friendship naturally develop.

4. Join a club or take on a job

Joining a club or taking on a part-time job is helpful for staying grounded and, if possible, being financially independent. Clubs are also a great way to make friends, take a break from academics, or enhance technical and interpersonal skills.

For example, I’m an Admissions Ambassador for Fuqua’s MQM program and a consultant in the Duke Advanced Consulting Club (DACC). Being part of these communities has not only expanded my network but also provided me with opportunities to participate actively in Fuqua events, connect with peers, and grow both personally and professionally.

5. Balance job searching with enjoying student life

While job searching is important, everyone should enjoy their time as a student. This can be a hard balance, but spending all free time preparing for job interviews might mean missing out on the memorable experiences of being a Duke student.

Spring term can be intense with the capstone project, active recruiting, and multiple classes. Plan wisely to avoid burnout, but do not wait until the last moment — even the most accomplished students need to be proactive to secure opportunities.

6. Don’t hesitate to reach out

As a current Admission Ambassador, I love assisting prospective candidates and incoming students because I was in their shoes not long ago. Fuqua’s admissions team is eager to help and can share their experiences, useful links, and resources to make your journey smoother.

Deciding to study at Duke was one of the hardest yet most rewarding decisions I’ve made. The journey is challenging, but it’s also filled with growth, friendships, and opportunities. Remember to take things one step at a time, and don’t hesitate to ask for help when you need it. You’ve got this!